According to Wikipedia:
A sissy is a genetic male who crossdresses, adopts hyper-feminine behaviors, and engages in stereotypical "feminine" activities (e.g. housekeeping, putting on make-up), often within the context of BDSM. Particularly within the BDSM community, a "sissy" will typically assume the submissive role to a dominant female and/or male partner(s).
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many respects, i agree with this description. However, there are
disagreements as it is such a widely applied term. In my humble opinion, to be a sissy, first you must be a genetic male who adopts, or is striving to adopt, a feminine image--meaning that they are or want to look like what a traditional woman in their society looks like and to a certain degree acts like. Secondly, a sissy must have a "sissy clit". Whether it is a fully functioning penis, or after castration (chemical or surgical) a vestigial and utterly limp cock, a true sissy must be constantly reminded of how she is not a man or woman but something completely different and in many ways pathetic (as in a later blog, i will discuss the need and impact of chastity on a sissy-slave). This requirement pretty much disqualifies post-op transsexuals form being classified as a sissy. And third, a sissy MUST be a 100% bottom submissive. Shemales who fuck guys in porn, or in the personal life, are not sissies. Nor are mtf (male-to-female) transvestites who top, or even just penetrate, their partners are not sissies. In adopting feminine characteristic, sissies adopt the most traditional approach of the passive feminine role during sex. The Man is in charge, you are there for His pleasure. And in that feminine role, you may only derive pleasure from your "pussy" or ass through Him penetrating you. A sissy should not ever have the opportunity, or even desire to use its sissy clit to penetrate anything.Which will bring me to the next topic that i believe is essential in becoming the perfect sissy...chastity.
In the meantime, enjoy a picture of myself in a proper offering position to be taken by a Real Man.
Hi sissy_lexi! I love your blog! Wonderful start!! I so agree in every way with your definition of sissy!
ReplyDeleteA sissy must be a total bottom and have a sissy-clit, which should never...ever...have any opportunity to be penetrative to males or females!
Chastity is a "must" for every sissy!
Hugs! ditsee
Love your blog sissy. What about sissy on sissy play? Can a sissy penetrate another sissy?
ReplyDeleteI caught my boy friend watching tranny and sissy porn. Does that mean he's bi? Or is he secretly gay?
ReplyDeleteI consider myself a bisexual sissy slut, and I've come to take pride in that designation, to own it, and to love being dressed and submissive to either a Superior woman or a Man. It's all about fun. I certainly don't carry this role 24/7 (though I do wear panties 24/7). I present as female a couple times a month now in a session or on a date. A girlfriend/domme of mine recently drained the shame from my role-playing with a simple phrase: "You like what you like." I'm not interested (except very abstractly) in becoming a woman. I'm completely at home with my male self and my female self. With me it's like embracing both the male and female aspects of myself and thereby becoming a whole person.
ReplyDeletea sissy is a non man,he's been feminized and de-maled and he is now a she..i was feminized years ago.
ReplyDeleteLike so many things lately, it's on a spectrum, isn't it? From the once-a-year cross-dresser to the 24/7 and everything in between. If we've learned anything in the past 10 years or so, it's that labels are approximations, and flexibility is key.
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